The Prayer of Jabez – Revisited

Read a review and a new perspective on the book “The Prayer of Jabez”. I too feel uneasy with the unbalanced nature of the book’s suggestions. It (the book and its testimonials) seems to indicate that faith is fueled by constant challenges to God to fulfill one’s prayers based on rote prayer and formula. It also inflates expectations that these prayers will always be positively answered… In truth we cannot even begin to assume an understanding of God’s wisdom nor can we expect Him to respond to prayers in the same way that a “genie” in a bottle grants wishes to passerby.

“Wilkinson (the author of The Prayer of Jabez) asserts that praying Jabez’s prayer leads to a life of incredible blessing and ever-increasing ministry opportunities-a life that sounds almost like a fairy-tale. However, little reference is ever made to the reality of genuine difficulties in life, and the necessity of sincere prayer to face those difficulties in a God-honoring way.” I think the review article raises a good point in that ministry for God is rarely a 123-formula approach to success…  there are hardships and also setbacks because it is not the will or the might of the person that answers prayers… but the will and grace of God Himself.

I appreciated the commentary that: Scripture, however, points to the importance of learning to live a life fixed on pleasing God in all the little details in life-attitudes, thoughts, words, and behavior. In the “mundane” aspects of life, God is also there.

There are basic tenets of the Prayer of Jabez that I do see as useful: the demonstration of humility, dependence and expectation of blessing are all good things to model in one’s prayer and pursuit of worship. Overall, good lessons are to be learned from Jabez’s shortly documented, but meaningful life story. Continue to pray for God’s blessings. May all of you find balance in things that you do and the life that you have chosen to pursue.

Good Morning Lord

Woke up inspired today. I have this feeling to pray and read the Word like nothing before. It’s like I’m on fire to reconnect with the Lord this morning.

Good Morning, Lord. I am here again today. But I feel an energy like never before and I wanted to start pouring it first in praise and love for you. I know I have been absent for a little while – my prayers seemingly get shorter and shorter each day until they became merely a rushed word or two before I fell asleep or a mumbled phrase of thanks while I scarfed down my meals in a hurried rush. Even my moments of prayer in mass seemed hurried and distracted as I stumbled through my daily list of tasks as I sit through my Sunday day of worship. I see now, by letting those other distractions into my life, it is easy to come up with excuses not to pray or not to focus on your Word.

Dear Jesus, you chastised the hypocrites of your times as they stumbled through life under the mantle of goodness but yet failed to do the works that would exemplify their true devotion to you and your teachings. Forgive me for putting you on “hold” when in fact, every day should begin -and- end with you. Help me to build a stronger relationship with you and through you may I learn compassion, charity, patience and love. Help me to let go of the material things and their pursuit so that I may bring myself back… centered on God and readily listening for His will for me. I ask this in Jesus’s holy name. Amen.