Month: May 2008

The Prayer of Jabez

I recently picked up a Christian devotional entitled “The Prayer of Jabez” and I was overwhelmed with the sheer enthusiasm of its message. This devotional sparked a whole series of books, devotionals and publications all centered around a little-known man from the Bible. He wasn’t anyone as famous or well known as David or Noah; in fact, this man: Jabez is only mentioned once in the Bible and then only for two sentences. But what he has to say in prayer has phoenomenal impact and meaning on our life as God-fearing (revering) individuals. In fact, Jabez’s prayer has inspired me to write a series of articles on exactly what he has to say and how it can help you build your relationship with God.

From the first book of Chronicles:

Jabez was more honorable than his brothers. His mother had named him Jabez, saying, “I gave birth to him in pain.” Jabez cried out to the God of Israel, “Oh, that you would bless me and enlarge my territory! Let your hand be with me, and keep me from harm so that I will be free from pain.” And God granted his request. (1 Chronicles 4:9-10, NIV)

The prayer goes so quickly, you almost miss it. Truly, this is one gem that anyone can fit into their schedule in just 10 minutes. As a recap, Jabez did something remarkable in prayer that changed his life compared to the rest of the people referenced and mentioned in the same chapter. Jabez’s four requests:

  1. “Please bless me indeed!”
  2. “Please enlarge my territory!”
  3. “Please put Your hand on me!”
  4. “Please keep me from evil!”

And God granted his requests to him… The book, “The Prayer of Jabez” by Bruce Wilkinson tells of testimonials and anecdotes of answered prayers and requests just by changing one’s mindset to think and act along the lines of this four part prayer. Without giving away too much about the book itself, I’d like to share a series of blog articles just about Jabez’s prayer and ways to interpret its meaningfulness in our lives as Christians.

As a little background, back in the times of the ancient Hebrews (about 1200 B.C.) Jabez was born to the tribe of Judah… the same tribe that David and Jesus came from later… in Bible times, a person’s name defined his future. For example, Solomon means “peace,” and sure enough, he became the first king of Israel to reign without going to war. As history would have it, Jabez’s entry into the world was not the most auspicious one. Jabez bore a heavy burden with his name, meaning “pain” – what kind of future would be in store for him with an awful name like that?

Jabez was desperate. He was already predestined by his culture to have a miserable, poor, simple life… perhaps his family and tribe even treated him as such. In his desperation, instead of lamenting his situation or cursing his mother’s cruelty, he began to pray to God in earnest and he starts by asking for His blessing.

The devotional made a good point that the Biblical sense of “blessing” isn’t the watered down, every day expression we use when people sneeze… we ask God to bless everything: our parents, our day at work, the food we eat; however in the Biblical meaning, to request a “blessing” is to ask for a “supernatural” favor.

When we ask for God’s blessing, we’re not asking for more of what we could get for ourselves. We’re sincerely asking for the kind of good things only God has the power to know about or give. That’s why the Bible says, “The Lord’s blessing is our greatest wealth. All our work adds nothing to it!” (Proverbs 10:22, TLB)

The Lord has many blessings to bear upon each of us as well. But the catch is, we have to ask. If you’ve never prayed and asked God for His blessings, you’ve missed out on a gift that keeps giving, and giving, and gving. Don’t miss out on this opportunity of your lifetime! As the Bible says:

You do not have because you do not ask. The Bible also says (James 4:2) Ask, promised Jesus, and it will be given to you… What man is there among you who, if his son asks for bead, will give him a stone? If you then, being evil, know how to give good gifts to your children, how much more will your Father who is in heaven give good things to those who ask him!” (Matthew 7:7,9,11)

And that’s the catch. there is no limit to God’s blessings in our lives. They are only limited by us and our forgetfulness or ignorance to ask, not by His resources, his power or willingness to give.

A Show of Enthusiasm

In one of my recent article readings, I stumbled across a challenging comment: “How can we come to know the Lord and his saving power and NOT be overwhelmed with enthusiasm and passion?”

Of course, for those who feel lukewarm or less than “overwelmed” it isn’t a mandate to contrive such a level of passion but instead it is a challenge to consider if we have truly listened to God’s message through Christ. The Bible speaks of “…harden not your hearts…” so that we may receive God’s word openly. There was also the parable of the farmer sowing seeds into the ground… the hardened soil received the seed, but the seeds could not penetrate and grow into the toughened soil. Have you become jaded, cynical and hardened to receive the message of Christ?

Sometimes we hear, but really do not “hear” what is being shared with us. The same goes with God’s word.

In a blog post about spiritual desire, the writer quotes E.M. Bounds, an early 20th century Methodist minister and devotional writer who says: “There can be no true praying without desire…” There must be some motivation or desire to send up our words and intentions to God… in addition to the gesture of prayer. Through completely devoting yourself to whatever period of time you’ve given to prayer, you can develop a very powerful and meaningful focus in your life. Make yourself fully mindful of your senses, mindset, thoughts, intentions, and true passion (desire) for the practice of prayer.  

Keep It Real

Found a quotation from author C.S. Lewis in a blog entry on prayer:

“The prayer preceding all prayers is ‘May it be the real I who speaks. May it be the real Thou that I speak to.”

A very appropriate statement to preface our prayer efforts. May we always strive to examine ourselves to make sure that we approach God as our TRUE selves… may we always approach the true God (and not an image of idolatry) in our prayers.

I also think it appropriate in current context of myself. This quotation comes as an answer of sorts to some recent, personal concerns regarding prayer. I sometimes worry that I have not prepared myself for the mindset or the right attitude for prayer during my daily 10 minutes. Again, the answer to this wordly concern is in the form of a little prayer and intention.

What About the Wicked?

Read a great blog entry by “Stushie” about “payback” in the form of a quick devotion inspired by a life experience. The intro to his article has a good reminder for many of us who feel wronged or crossed by our neighbor:

Sometimes we are too zealous in our outrage at the world that we want to payback evil with evil. Payback belongs to the Lord; we are meant to love our enemies and forgive those who hurt us.

Amen to that. Of course, I will be one to admit it is more easily said than done. Often times I carry grudges in an effort to “avoid” getting harmed again – but that goes contrary to the whole concept of forgiveness. Forgiveness lets go. And generalizing other people in the future goes contrary to treating our neighbors with love… imagine, receiving others with hostility or suspicion just because of a bad past experience… the cynicism of it all ruins all our future relationships and closes our hearts.

Each day I have prayed through one devotion or another for freedom from the grudges I have carried over the years. I find that the more I reflect on my release from their chains, the more my burden seems lightened. It seems that reliving past wrongdoings is different when you put it in the light of prayer vs. plotting or seeking revenge and payback. There are times that I even look back on the related experiences and noticeably felt that I really didn’t care about them anymore… my feelings were at best neutral and waning on forgetfulness (thank God for that!)

On a closing thought (also from Stushie’s post):

… Help us to do whatever we can do to make this world a better place through the strength of your Love…

I like Stushie’s thoughts on the topic. What is to become of the wicked people who harm us in this world? It’s not up to us. So stop brooding and get on with living and enjoying life!

I’m sure a search for “4 minute devotions” (a similar theme to “10 minutes for God”) may yield more of his posts on various topics related to prayer, life and reflection. Enjoy!

Where Does Prayer Fit In?

We’ve been reflecting on prayer a lot lately in this blog, and I thought it to be an apt point to ponder. Why so much emphasis on prayer? Why do we pray? Doesen’t God know what we need before we even realize it enough to ask for it? The answer lies in the principles of humility. Until we are able to approach God, broken and helpless, we are simply deluding ourselves. Our everyday needs, our worries and our problems should all be given over to the hands of the Lord – everything is provided for by God and it is point to humble ourselves enough to realize that.

When we settle down each evening at the dinner table for our meal, do we dive in and eat hungrily, self assured that our hard labor has earned us our nourishment? And how do you suppose you got your job? What is the nature of your employment and the daily factors affecting it? It is too often that we allow the “ego” to rule our minds and our hearts. “I” worked hard. “I” earned my salary. “I” bought this food… the truth is, YOU didn’t do anything by yourself. It is the Lord that has provided for you; a point of humility… and thankfulness is the reason why prayer is appropriate at mealtime.

A recent blog article I read regarding the power of prayer raised an observation I think is common amongst many of us. The writer talked about how he realized that while trying to help a friend in trouble he ran through his mind all the things he could do to help… and only when he had no alternative left, he offered a prayer as the last resort. If prayer is so important, he argues, why did he save it for last? The answer to that is the mindset. Again, the “ego” comes into play – we may think that we are the “masters” of our destinies or at least the one in control for the many problems we encounter in our life… but that really isn’t the case. God is still behind the scenes running the show.

If I were in a similar situation, I would consider praying first. Ask God with humility for guidance and ask Him: “What would you have me do, Lord? Please help me help others… and when I cannot find the answer, please guide me to what is your will…” It is different when we look to God for guidance in the things that we do. In the action, we surrender ourselves and our needs to the hands of one who knows infinitely more about our destinies and what is best for our well being.

On the other hand, there is a difference between asking for help, then sitting back and doing nothing. With prayer there is also action. But it helps to put our minds in a prayerful state, humble and helpless, surrendering ourselves with the knowledge that it isn’t our individual efforts (as our big ego would like us to believe) that drives our destinies… but the providence and grace of God at work in our lives. 

The Failings of Gossip

A thought for the day on the origins and effects of gossip…

Blogger Yeweifang writes in her article: Loving God With All Your Mind, a challenge to one’s mindset on relationships. She writes that “We often wonder about what a person isn’t saying or try to read between the lines of what he or she does say…” which is true. Some people chalk up such a practice as simple “sensitivity” to others… we read between the lines because others perhaps find it difficult to communicate what they are actually thinking or feeling.

The Bible suggests otherwise however. For example in Matthew 18:15, “If your brother sins against you, go and tell him his fault between you and him alone.” We are encouraged in Matthew’s gospel to be truthful and direct with our neighbor. In doing so, we are freed from worrying about what other people think of us or what they might be saying about us behind our back. When we stray from this principle, isn’t that what feeds the practice of gossip? Speculation (often negative) about others and their intentions hurts us because it encourages us to harbor evil thoughts about others.

When we indulge in gossip, we fail our neighbors because we delve into “interpreting and distorting the actions of others rather than accepting them at face value.” In a word, we make our neighbors into liars and base our understanding on something other than the reality or the truth.

Those of you who have been on the receivng end of gossip and its mis-truths know how much it can hurt. Think about these implications the next time you are tempted to second-guess another person. Trust in what your neighbor says to you and try your hardest to approach her with honesty so that she may also in turn trust in you and what you say to her. This is one way we can express love for our neighbor. 

Community Prayer

Today I found a creative approach towards prayer for those who would like the support and the cooperation of others in faith. The blogger details how to build a prayer covenant. You could find participants through your network of contacts or through people in your church or parish. In Ms. Harcombe’s example, she demonstrates a large prayer covenant group (forty of them!) who were organized online.

To begin a prayer covenant create a list of all the members and appoint a day dedicated to each person or family. The idea would be that everyone on the list would pray for the person nominated for that day. Each participant is asked to give three brief points, the first a point of praise and the other two requests. Intentions and prayers can be changed at any time as they are answered or substituted as needs changed.

Visit the following link for some useful guidelines in organizing an effective prayer covenant. Remember, in your efforts, no group is too small to make a difference. You could start with your family members (both distant and local) or perhaps a circle of contacts with whom you communicate with regularly by email or phone. In the blogger’s example, she didn’t even know some of the members personally, but as the circle progressed in their prayers, they grew from the sharing experience.

If you want to build group support for your efforts at prayer, perhaps this idea will help you get started! God Bless! 

Carrying Your Cross

Why does it seem that some of us are given to carry heavier burdens and sufferings in life compared to others? Blogger Jocelyn Soriano discusses some of the points to ponder on the cross we bear in our lives in her article, Why Carry Your Heavier Cross? In summary, she highlights that while we may look at the stark contrast of the poor and the destitute compared to the “rich and famous”, what inner struggles each is given to face is virtually unknown to us. Her comments reminded me of a fictional poem I had once read many years ago in my high school American Lit class, which was written by Edwin Arlington Robinson titled “Richard Corey“…

WHENEVER Richard Cory went down town,  
  We people on the pavement looked at him:  
He was a gentleman from sole to crown,  
  Clean favored, and imperially slim.  
  
And he was always quietly arrayed,        
  And he was always human when he talked;  
But still he fluttered pulses when he said,  
  “Good-morning,” and he glittered when he walked.  
  
And he was rich—yes, richer than a king,  
  And admirably schooled in every grace:  
In fine, we thought that he was everything  
  To make us wish that we were in his place.  
  
So on we worked, and waited for the light,  
  And went without the meat, and cursed the bread;  
And Richard Cory, one calm summer night,
  Went home and put a bullet through his head.

For the many of us who “worked, and waited for the light…”, going without meat and cursing the bread, perhaps we have overlooked the details in a much, much bigger picture. Nobody in the poem knew what this otherwise upright, well-to-do man was really going through in life. All they saw was the outer appearance of wealth and affluence. And so the same applies very aptly to the “Richard Corey’s” of our own life.

Ms. Soriano covers many other good points about our life burdens and ends with something I found very meaningful, it was a quote from Matthew’s gospel:

Then Jesus said to his disciples, “If any of you want to come with me, you must forget yourself, carry your cross, and follow me. (Matthew 16:24)

The goal is not in being able to carry a cross – that’s just incidental in comparison to the invitation to follow Christ. In following Christ, we realize our purpose and our destiny for which

We must be passionate enough, enamored enough, enthralled, raptured, captivated, powerfully moved in following our life mission, it doesn’t matter whatever difficulties may come along. We know we could overcome anything, for the prize ahead is worth far more than the sacrifices we are to make along the way.

That comment was very powerful for me; it means “keeping your eye on the prize” no matter what life’s traumas may be thrown at you. Our life on this planet is but a brief moment in time compared to the eternity (the prize) that follows.  

 

More on Prayer and Meditation

Searching for the keyword “meditation”, I found a relatively new blogger on the block, “Aurora Astra” who also focuses on meditation, the spirit and God. For those of you interested in exploring further the benefits of meditation and want to know how to connect with your inner spirit, the blogger shares a personal way of starting meditation using prayer. In the article: “Prayer as Preparation“, there is a step-by-step description using The Lord’s Prayer to build focus and calmness in one’s mind.

As the writer states, there is no right or wrong way to pray… just your own way. I really liked the article’s focus on the physical state of being (breathing, thinking and awareness) towards the preparation provided through prayer. It certainly can be used at any time: as a morning wake-up, to take a break in a busy, hectic day or as a wrap-up in the evening. I can’t wait to give it a try myself. Thanks “Aurora Astra” for sharing your technique!

Prayers That Get Answered

Have questions about God or Jesus Christ and their role in your spiritual life? I found an informative, Christian oriented website that addresses some typical questions about topics such as building a relationship with God and how to know God. 

For those of you interested in further exploring the role of prayer, check out this site for its short discussion on the nature of prayer. It asks the question: “Does God hear our prayers?” and “How do I pray?”; the answer to the former question depends largely on the relationship we have built with God. Do we have one? Sometimes prayers seemingly go unanswered – what have we done wrong? What things keeps our prayers from being heard? There are some listed passages from the Bible for further reading and study as well. Check out their discussion on prayer through the link above.

How does this article fit with your original understanding of prayer? How will it affect your daily 10 minute commitment to God? Think about your response – take some time to journal or blog on it.