Examen: Saturday of the Eleventh Week in Ordinary Time

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Saturday of the Eleventh Week in Ordinary Time

First Reading: 2 Chronicles 24:17-25
Responsorial Psalm: Psalm 89:4-5, 29-30, 31-32, 33-34
Gospel: Matthew 6:24-34
Daily readings: https://bible.usccb.org/bible/readings/062026.cfm

There is a quiet tragedy running through today's First Reading. Joash — the child hidden in the temple, protected by God's faithfulness, crowned king by the courage of a priest — drifts. After the death of Jehoiada, the man who guided and formed him, the princes of Judah come flattering, and Joash listens. He forsakes the temple. He turns to idols. And when Zechariah, Jehoiada's own son, stands up to tell him the truth, Joash has him stoned. The man who owed everything to that family cannot bring himself to hear an honest word from them.

It is a sobering picture of what happens when we stop seeking first the kingdom. Not usually a dramatic fall — more often a slow drift, a series of small decisions to listen to the flattering voices rather than the faithful ones.

Jesus speaks directly to this in the Gospel. You cannot serve two masters. Do not worry about food, clothing, what tomorrow brings. Look at the birds. Look at the wildflowers. Your Father feeds them, clothes them, holds them — and you are worth so much more. Seek first the kingdom of God, and everything else will find its place. It sounds almost too simple. But worry is its own kind of idolatry — it is trusting our own anxious management of the future more than we trust the Father who already holds it. Jesus is not asking us to be irresponsible. He is asking us to remember who we belong to.

On a Saturday — maybe tired from the week, maybe carrying anxiety about money, health, family, the future — this is a good word. The Father knows what you need. All of it. Before you ask.


A few questions to sit with today:

1. What have I been most anxious about this week — and underneath that anxiety, what am I really afraid of? Have I brought that fear honestly to God?

2. Is there a voice I have been listening to this week — flattering, accommodating, comfortable — that has been pulling me away from what I know is true?

3. Did I seek the kingdom first today, or did I let worry, distraction, or comfort run the day?

4. Where did I catch a glimpse of God's care for me today — something small, like a bird or a wildflower — that I almost missed?


One small thing for tomorrow:

Tomorrow is Sunday — a good day to name one specific worry you have been carrying and place it at the foot of the altar at Mass. You do not have to have it solved. Just set it down and say: "Father, you know. I trust you." That act of release, even if it does not feel complete, is the beginning of seeking the kingdom first.


Lord Jesus, I come to this Saturday carrying more than I probably need to be carrying. There are worries I have been turning over all week that I have not really handed to you. Forgive me for trusting my own anxious planning more than your faithful provision. You clothe the wildflowers and feed the sparrows, and you have never once forgotten me. Help me to believe that not just in my mind but in the tired, worried places of my heart. Free me from the quiet idolatries — the comfort, the approval, the security — that I keep choosing over you. May Mary, who trusted you with everything she could not understand, teach me what it looks like to seek the kingdom first. Amen.


If you'd like to share: what is one worry you would like to set down this weekend — and can we pray for you in the comments?

Examen: Friday of the Eleventh Week in Ordinary Time

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Friday of the Eleventh Week in Ordinary Time
Optional Memorial of Saint Romuald, Abbot

First Reading: 2 Kings 11:1-4, 9-18, 20
Responsorial Psalm: Psalm 132:11, 12, 13-14, 17-18
Gospel: Matthew 6:19-23
Daily readings: https://bible.usccb.org/bible/readings/061926.cfm

Today’s First Reading is dramatic — a palace coup, a hidden king, a usurper finally brought down. But underneath all that noise is a quiet thread: a young child named Joash, hidden in the temple for six years, kept safe while chaos reigned outside. The temple was the place of God’s presence. In the middle of a world bent on seizing power and wealth, there was a secret refuge that the scheming could not touch.

Jesus picks up that thread in the Gospel. Do not store up treasures on earth, he says — the kind that rust, decay, and get stolen. Store them in heaven instead. And then this line: “Where your treasure is, there also will your heart be.” He is not giving us a lecture on finances. He is asking us a question about our attention. What do I keep returning to? What do I check first in the morning? What is the thing I am most afraid to lose? That is my treasure. And wherever that is, that is where my heart lives.

Saint Romuald, whose optional memorial we celebrate today, took this question seriously in a radical way. He was born into wealth, watched his father kill a man in a duel over property, and in that moment of horror walked away from the whole thing. He spent the next fifty years wandering Italy, founding monasteries, seeking silence, and teaching others to sit with God. His simple rule said: “Sit in your cell as in paradise. Put the whole world behind you and forget it.” He was not asking for despair of the world — he was asking for freedom from it. The Camaldolese monks he founded still live this today: together for prayer, but mostly alone with God, with no phones, no internet, no noise. Their screen, someone once said, is the tabernacle. Romuald teaches us that the eye can only take in so much light — and what we fix it on shapes everything.


A few questions to sit with today:

1. Where has my attention lived today — what have I returned to most, worried about most, scrolled past most? Is that where I want my heart to be?

2. Is there something I am holding onto tightly because I am afraid of losing it? Can I loosen that grip a little tonight?

3. Did I find any moment of quiet today — even a brief one — where I was simply with God and not performing or producing?

4. Where did I experience something that felt like treasure that cannot rust — a moment of real love, peace, or beauty?


One small thing for tomorrow:

Tomorrow morning, before you check your phone, take sixty seconds to sit quietly and ask God: “What do you want my attention on today?” Just one minute of stillness before the noise begins. Saint Romuald spent a lifetime learning this. We can start with sixty seconds.


Lord Jesus, you know exactly where my treasure is — you can see it in what I worry about, what I reach for, what I am afraid to lose. I do not always like what that reveals about me. Forgive me for storing up things that cannot last and neglecting the things that do. Help me to fix my eye on you — simply, quietly, without so many words — the way Saint Romuald learned to. I want the light in me to be actual light, not the glow of a screen or the shimmer of something I am grasping. Teach me to be still. Teach me that you are enough. May Mary, who treasured all things in her heart, help me to treasure the right things. Amen.


If you’d like to share: what is one thing you noticed yourself reaching for today that might be a sign of where your heart actually is?



Examen: Thursday of the Eleventh Week in Ordinary Time

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Thursday of the Eleventh Week in Ordinary Time

First Reading: Sirach 48:1-14
Responsorial Psalm: Psalm 97:1-2, 3-4, 5-6, 7
Gospel: Matthew 6:7-15
Daily readings: https://bible.usccb.org/bible/readings/061826.cfm

The Book of Sirach pauses today to sing about Elijah and Elisha — two men whose lives were so fully given to God that miracles followed them like a second shadow. "Like a fire there appeared the prophet Elijah, whose words were as a flaming furnace." That is not a description of someone who was loud or impressive for its own sake. It is a description of someone so filled with God that simply speaking the truth changed things.

Then Jesus gives us the Our Father. Right after yesterday's reminder to pray in secret, today he teaches us what to actually say. And it is striking how simple it is. Not many words. Not elaborate theology. Just a child talking to a Father — your name be holy, your kingdom come, give us bread, forgive us as we forgive, keep us from evil. The whole shape of the Christian life is right there in a few lines.

The line that tends to catch in the throat is the forgiveness one. Forgive us as we forgive those who trespass against us. Jesus drives the point home at the end: if you do not forgive others, your Father will not forgive you. That is not a threat — it is a description of how the heart works. A heart clenched tight around an old wound cannot receive much. The same hands that hold a grudge have a hard time holding grace. Jesus is not asking us to pretend the hurt never happened. He is asking us to let the debt go — for our own sake as much as theirs.


A few questions to sit with today:

1. When I pray, am I actually talking to my Father — or am I going through motions, filling time, performing a duty?

2. Is there someone I have not yet fully forgiven — someone whose name comes up in my chest before my mind? What would it take to loosen that grip a little?

3. Did I ask God for what I actually need today, simply and honestly, the way a child asks a parent?

4. Where did I see God's kingdom show up in a small way today — in my family, my work, a stranger, a moment of unexpected peace?


One small thing for tomorrow:

Pray the Our Father slowly tomorrow — once, out loud if you can, pausing at each line. Let "forgive us as we forgive" land fully before you move on. If a face comes to mind at that line, hold it there gently and say: "Lord, I release what they owe me. Help me mean it." That is enough.


Lord Jesus, thank you for teaching me to pray. I confess that I often rush through words without really meaning them, or I come to you with a list instead of a conversation. Slow me down. Help me to pray the way you taught — simply, honestly, from the heart. And the forgiveness part, Lord — I need your help with that. There are places where I am still holding on, still keeping score, still carrying something I said I already let go. Free me from that. You forgave me everything on the cross; help me to forgive others the small things I am still clutching. Through Mary, who forgave the world its rejection of her Son, teach me what gracious release looks like. Amen.


If you'd like to share: is there a line of the Our Father that always catches your attention or feels especially alive for you right now?

Examen: Wednesday of the Eleventh Week in Ordinary Time

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Wednesday of the Eleventh Week in Ordinary Time

First Reading: 2 Kings 2:1, 6-14
Responsorial Psalm: Psalm 31:20, 21, 24
Gospel: Matthew 6:1-6, 16-18
Daily readings: https://bible.usccb.org/bible/readings/061726.cfm

There is a moment in today's First Reading that is easy to rush past. Elijah is about to be taken up to heaven, and Elisha refuses to leave his side. Three times he is told to stay behind. Three times he says no. "As the LORD lives, and as you yourself live, I will not leave you." He is not doing this for anyone to see. There are fifty other prophets watching from a distance, but Elisha is not performing for them. He is just staying close to the one he loves, all the way to the end.

That quiet faithfulness — the kind nobody posts about — is the thread connecting both readings today. Jesus in the Gospel turns our attention to the same thing. Give in secret. Pray in your inner room with the door closed. Fast without making a show of it. Your Father who sees in secret will repay you. The point is not the action itself but who you are doing it for. There is a kind of goodness that needs an audience, and there is a kind of goodness that is content to be known only by God. Jesus is asking us to practice the second kind.

That is countercultural in the age of the highlight reel. We live in a world that practically rewards the public performance of virtue — the post, the story, the comment that signals we are one of the good ones. Jesus does not condemn generosity or prayer or fasting. He just asks: who is the audience? When I help someone, give something, or make a sacrifice — am I doing it to be seen, or am I doing it because I love God and I love this person?


A few questions to sit with today:

1. Was there a moment today when I did something good — and noticed I wanted someone to see it or know about it? What was underneath that?

2. Is there a place in my prayer life that has become more about routine or appearance than about actually being with God?

3. Did I stay close to what matters today — to the people I love, to God — or did I drift toward what was easier or more visible?

4. Where did I sense God seeing something in me that nobody else saw today — a small kindness, a quiet struggle, a hidden prayer?


One small thing for tomorrow:

Do one good thing tomorrow that no one will know about. It does not have to be big — leave a kind note somewhere anonymous, let someone go ahead of you without making it a moment, say a prayer for someone without telling them. Let it be between you and God. Notice how that feels.


Lord Jesus, thank you for seeing what is hidden. You see the small acts of love no one notices — the patience held together at the end of a long day, the prayer said quietly before sleep, the kindness given to someone who will never think to thank me. I confess that I do not always do these things just for you. Sometimes I want to be seen, to be known, to be credited. Forgive me for the ways I perform goodness instead of simply living it. Help me to close the door a little more often and meet you in the quiet. Teach me Elisha's faithfulness — staying close to you not for an audience, but because you are my life. Amen.


If you'd like to share: what is one small, hidden way you tried to love someone today — something only God saw?

Examen: Tuesday of the Eleventh Week in Ordinary Time

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Tuesday of the Eleventh Week in Ordinary Time

First Reading: 1 Kings 21:17-29
Responsorial Psalm: Psalm 51:3-4, 5-6ab, 11 and 16
Gospel: Matthew 5:43-48
Daily readings: https://bible.usccb.org/bible/readings/061626.cfm

Yesterday we watched Ahab pout and scheme his way into an innocent man's vineyard. Today the story continues — and something unexpected happens.

Elijah comes with a word of judgment. God names what Ahab did: he murdered, and he took. There is no softening it. But then Ahab does something surprising. He tears his garments, puts on sackcloth, fasts, and walks humbly. And God sees it. "Have you seen that Ahab has humbled himself before me?" God asks. And because of that small turning, God's response changes.

It is a remarkable thing. Not because Ahab deserved mercy — he didn't — but because God is paying attention to the posture of the heart, even in a man who had done terrible things. Then Jesus arrives in the Gospel and pushes further still. Love your enemies. Pray for those who persecute you. Be perfect as your heavenly Father is perfect. God lets the sun rise on the bad and the good. The rain falls on the just and the unjust alike. We are being invited into a love that does not sort people by what they deserve first.

That is a hard ask for an ordinary Tuesday. At work, there may be someone who got credit you earned. At home, there may be a wound that hasn't fully healed. On the road, there's probably someone who cut you off. Jesus is not asking us to pretend none of it happened. He is asking us whether we are willing to let God's kind of love be bigger than our accounting.


A few questions to sit with today:

1. Is there someone in my life I have quietly filed under "enemy" — someone I've stopped wishing well? How do I feel when I pray for them, even briefly?

2. Was there a moment today when I caught myself keeping score — measuring what I give against what I receive?

3. Is there any area of my life where I need to do what Ahab did — tear something, put something down, walk more humbly before God?

4. Where did I experience God's generosity today — sun on the bad and the good — and did I notice it?


One small thing for tomorrow:

Think of one person who has hurt you or frustrated you — someone you'd rather avoid. Tomorrow, say one quiet prayer for them. Not a big gesture, not a conversation, just a sentence: "Lord, bless them today." That's it. You don't have to feel it fully yet. Just begin.


Lord Jesus, thank you for this Tuesday and for the strange, stubborn mercy you show even to people like Ahab — and like me. I know there are places in my heart where I love only the lovable, where I give only to those who give back. Forgive me for the smallness of my love compared to yours. Today's readings remind me that you watch for even the smallest turning toward you — a torn garment, a bowed head, a moment of honesty. I offer you mine. Help me tomorrow to pray for someone I find hard to love, and to trust that you will do what only you can do in their life and mine. May Mary, who said yes to a love she could not yet fully understand, teach me to open my hands a little wider. Amen.


If you'd like to share: is there someone you've been finding hard to love lately — and what would it look like to pray for them this week?




Examen: Monday of the Eleventh Week in Ordinary Time

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Monday of the Eleventh Week in Ordinary Time
No feast or memorial today

First Reading: 1 Kings 21:1-16
Responsorial Psalm: Psalm 5:2-3ab, 4b-6a, 6b-7
Gospel: Matthew 5:38-42
Daily readings: https://bible.usccb.org/bible/readings/061526.cfm

Today’s readings put two very different pictures of the human heart side by side, and then Jesus comes along and flips the frame entirely.

Naboth had a vineyard. It was his family’s land, handed down through generations, tied to his identity and his inheritance before God. When King Ahab came wanting it — offering a fair price, even — Naboth said no. Not out of stubbornness, but out of integrity. Some things are not for sale. Ahab went home, lay on his bed, turned his face to the wall, and refused to eat. A king. Pouting. And then Jezebel stepped in and schemed. She had Naboth falsely accused and stoned to death, and Ahab got his vineyard.

It is a painfully familiar script, even if our version plays out in kitchens and offices instead of palaces. We feel entitled to something — our evening quiet after a long day, credit for work we did, an apology we think we have earned — and when we do not get it, we either sulk like Ahab or we start maneuvering like Jezebel. We dress it up as justice. We tell ourselves we are simply asking for what is right. And maybe sometimes we are. But Jesus arrives in Matthew 5 and says something almost scandalous: do not resist the one who wrongs you. Turn the other cheek. Walk the second mile. Give the cloak too. He is not asking us to be pushovers. He is asking us to stop letting our wounded ego run the show. There is a surprising freedom in it — acting from love instead of keeping score.

A few questions to sit with tonight:

  1. Was there a moment today when I felt something was owed to me — and how did I respond?
  2. Did I hold my time, my energy, or my plans loosely, or did I grip them tight when someone touched them?
  3. Was there someone today who needed more from me than I wanted to give — and what did I actually do?
  4. Where did I sense God asking me to trust rather than scheme or try to control the outcome?

One small thing for tomorrow:

Pick one moment tomorrow — at the breakfast table, in a meeting, in traffic, at bedtime with the kids — when you feel that familiar pull of “this isn’t fair” or “I deserve better than this.” Before you react, take one breath and ask: what would the genuinely generous response look like here? Not the doormat response. Not the martyred sigh. The free one, chosen on purpose. Just one moment. That is enough to start.

Lord Jesus, here I am at the end of this day. I know there were moments I acted more like Ahab than like you — sulking over small things, gripping what I thought was mine, calculating instead of giving. I bring that to you honestly, without trying to dress it up. Forgive me. Give me open hands, Lord. Give me a heart that holds things loosely because it trusts you completely. Teach me what it means to walk that second mile — not out of weakness or resignation, but out of the deep freedom that only love can give. May Mary’s quiet yes remind me tonight that surrender to you is never loss. Thank you for this ordinary Monday, and for the extraordinary grace hidden inside it. Amen.

I would love to hear from you — share in the comments a moment today when you chose generosity over getting even, or a time when letting go of something turned out to be a gift.

Do I Love God or Just Fear Hell?

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What Am I Really Seeking in Salvation?


Even if you don’t share my Christian convictions, these questions might help you examine what really drives your spiritual life—or your refusal of one.


Intro: The Questions Underneath

I want to explore a simple but uncomfortable chain of questions: What really sits underneath my prayer, my desire for salvation, and my fear of hell?

I’m not trying to shame anyone or question their sincerity. I’m asking these questions first of all to myself and inviting you to sit with them too.


Why Do I Pray?

Do I pray because it’s an obligation from my upbringing, a habit I was trained into?
Or do I pray because I actually want to talk to God?

Do I want to talk to God because that’s what “good” people do?
Or do I want to talk to Him the way I want to talk to someone I love, because I desire a real relationship?

Both can be present at once. Obedience and habit matter. But if I never move beyond obligation into relationship, I risk treating God as a taskmaster rather than a Father who delights in hearing My voice.

“Only a child can wake up a king at 3 AM for a glass of water. With the Father, you have that kind of access.” Prayer is a grace and a conduit that we often leave unused. When the idle heart finally recognizes prayer as a gift, it naturally wants to adopt it with fervor. “Pray without ceasing.”


Relationship or Just “Being Good”?

If I’m honest, there are times when I want to be seen as “good” more than I want to be close to God. I can treat prayer, Mass, or spiritual routines as badges that prove I’m on the right team.

But God is not asking me to perform goodness for Him. He is inviting me into friendship: to speak honestly, to listen, to share life with Him the way I would with someone I truly love.


What Am I Seeking in Salvation?

Am I seeking salvation mainly because I want to avoid punishment?
Or am I seeking salvation because I want to be eternally with a loving God in a relationship I already treasure in my earthly life?

The Church has long recognized that fear of hell can be a starting point, but not the destination. God invites me beyond fear into love: to hate sin not only because it deserves punishment, but because it wounds the One who loves me.

Salvation is not just avoiding hell. It is learning, day by day, to desire the God who already desires me, so that being with Him forever is simply the continuation of a friendship I have grown to treasure.


What Do I Really Fear About Hell?

Scripture uses terrifying images for hell—fire, darkness, weeping—not to satisfy our curiosity, but to warn us that separation from God is real and dreadful.

But the deepest horror of hell is not the imagery; it is the reality that it is the state of having finally and definitively said “no” to God’s love, even if I never utter those words out loud.

Most of us would never say, “I choose eternal separation from God.” That sounds absurd. And yet, hell is, in a sense, the final confirmation of what my heart has been choosing all along. It is God honoring my freedom, even when I use it against my own true good.

God does not delight in anyone’s damnation. Hell is not His desire for me; it is the tragic endpoint of a long series of refusals to receive His mercy. As the Gospel of John says, God sent His only Son not to condemn the world but that the world might be saved through Him.


The Tiny Steps of the Heart

I have justified my own sins this way, telling myself, “At least I’m not doing something serious,” while ignoring the small daily choices that tilt my heart away from God.

The heart moves in tiny steps: a small lie I refuse to confess, a resentment I nurture, a habit of tearing others down with my words because it feels justified. Each small “no” to grace forms me into the kind of person who is comfortable without God—and uncomfortable with Him.

Most of us will never commit the obvious, headline‑worthy sins we use to reassure ourselves that “we’re not that bad.” But every quiet act of detraction, every gleeful bit of gossip, every story I twist about someone who has hurt me reveals whose company my heart is drawn to: the Accuser or the Father.


Grace in Small Moments

The same God whom I can quietly reject in small choices is also the God who quietly offers Me grace in small moments: the urge to apologize, the nudge to pray, the chance to stay silent rather than gossip.

If these questions expose uncomfortable truths in my heart, that is not the end of the story. It is the beginning of honesty.

God’s mercy meets me precisely in those small crossroads. I may have a long history of choosing my own way, but right now, in this moment, I can choose differently. I can say a small “yes” to grace instead of another small “no.”


A Final Question for the Heart

I’m not writing this as someone who has mastered these questions. I’m writing as someone who sees these patterns in my own heart.

So I’ll end with this: When I think about salvation and hell, do I mostly imagine escaping pain, or do I imagine being forever with the God I have slowly learned to love?

The way I answer that question—not just with my words, but with my daily choices—may be the clearest sign of what I truly desire.

Finding Hope Through Mary’s Motherly Care

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It’s the week of the Sixth Sunday of Easter, the week following Mother’s Day. For those who may have missed last Sunday’s scripture, or for people who want to revisit the readings but with a Marian spin and a focus on motherhood and God’s blessings through motherly care I invite you to read on, or print it out to read at your bedside tonight or any night this week before you go to sleep.

Settling into prayer with Mary

Begin quietly, breathing slowly, and making the sign of the Cross.

“Lord Jesus, You promised, ‘I will not leave you orphans; I will come to you.’ Tonight I come to You with Mary, Your Mother and mine, asking for light to see this day as she would see it, with a mother’s heart.”

Pause and imagine Mary simply standing beside you, as at the foot of the Cross, present, silent, attentive.


Step 1: Gratitude – Joy in the city, joy in Mary’s heart

Philip brought the Gospel to Samaria, and “there was great joy in that city.” Mary knew that joy first, when she received the Word in her womb and sang her Magnificat.

  • Where today did I glimpse that same Gospel joy—perhaps in a child’s smile, a word of encouragement, a meal shared, or a quiet moment of peace at home?
  • How did I experience Mary’s maternal care—maybe through my own mother, a spiritual mother, my spouse, or a woman who quietly “mothered” me with counsel, prayer, or simple presence?
  • What “Magnificat moments” did I live today: times when my soul, even briefly, “magnified the Lord” in gratitude?

Thank God for these graces and thank Mary for her hidden, ongoing motherhood in your life, as Mother of God and Mother of the Church.


Step 2: Presence – “I will not leave you orphans” and Mary’s motherhood

Jesus promises: “I will not leave you orphans; I will come to you.” From the Cross He also said to the beloved disciple, “Behold, your mother,” giving Mary to the Church and to each disciple as mother.

  • Where today did I feel alone, overwhelmed, or “orphaned” in my heart—perhaps in parenting, work, marriage, or unresolved family tension?
  • In those moments, did I remember that I have not only a Savior but also a Mother in the order of grace, who intercedes, comforts, and protects?
  • Can I recall one moment today when I sensed quiet help, a soft strength, or a gentle nudge toward trust that might have been Mary’s maternal care at work?

Speak simply: “Jesus, thank You for not leaving me an orphan. Mary, Mother of the Church and my Mother, thank you for staying close, even when I forget You are there.”


Step 3: Love in action – Keeping the commandments with Mary’s “Yes”

Jesus says, “If you love me, you will keep my commandments.” Mary is the first disciple who lived this perfectly with her fiat: “Let it be done to me according to your word.”

  • Looking back over this day, where did I echo Mary’s “yes” in small ways—choosing patience over irritation, service over comfort, listening over distraction, especially within my family?
  • Where did I resist God’s will—through anger, selfishness, or indifference—especially toward those I am called to love most closely?
  • As I think of mothers and spiritual mothers, where did I see Mary’s style of love: attentive, persevering, quietly sacrificial, helping others closer to God?

Ask Mary: “Teach me, Mother, to keep Jesus’ commandments with your same humility and courage. Help my love become more concrete, especially at home.”


Step 4: Witness and hope – Mary, Mother of hope

Peter urges us to “always be ready to give an explanation… for your hope.” Mary stood at the Cross in a hope that did not deny suffering but trusted God’s promise beyond what she could see.

  • What kind of hope carried me today—hope grounded in Christ’s love, or in my own control, plans, and fears?
  • Did I speak or act today in a way that showed my family that God is truly present and trustworthy, even when things are difficult?
  • How have the mothers in my life, including Mary, taught me to hope: by their prayer, their endurance in trials, their forgiveness, or their quiet fidelity over many years?

Ask gently: “Mary, Mother of hope, lend me your heart, that I may stand firm in love and trust, especially in the places where my family story feels fragile or unresolved.”


Step 5: The Spirit’s anointing – Mary and the Advocate

Jesus promises the “Advocate… the Spirit of truth” who will be with us always. Mary received the Spirit at the Annunciation and prayed with the Church at Pentecost, welcoming the same Spirit for the whole Body of Christ.

  • Where in my vocation—mother, father, son, daughter, spouse, friend—do I most need the Holy Spirit’s help tonight?
  • What situation in my home needs a fresh Pentecost: reconciliation, courage for a hard conversation, guidance in parenting, healing of a wound?
  • Are there mothers, women, or families who especially need the Spirit’s consolation and strength, and whom Mary may be asking me to pray for or support?

Pray: “Come, Holy Spirit, through the heart of Mary. Anoint my family and every mother and spiritual mother. Let Your gifts blossom in our home.”


Step 6: Entrustment – Into Mary’s hands, into God’s heart

The psalm invites all the earth to “come and see the works of God” and “cry out to God with joy.” Mary magnifies these works and helps us see God’s hand in our ordinary days.

Gather your day and place it in Mary’s hands:

  • Offer her the bright moments: joys, successes, tenderness, and gratitude.
  • Offer her the dark and heavy moments: sins, failures, arguments, fears, and fatigue.
  • Offer her the people you carry: your mother, mothers you know, your spouse, children, parents, and any who feel alone or “orphaned.”

Then say: “Mary, Mother of the Church, carry these intentions to Jesus. Arrange the details I cannot fix and keep my heart close to His.”

Rest for a moment in quiet trust.


Marian closing prayer for the end of the day

Heavenly Father,
You have given us Mary as Mother of Your Son and Mother of the Church.
Through her, You show us a heart that listens, trusts, and loves without reserve.
On this Mother’s Day, I thank You for every gift of motherhood in my life—
for my own mother and all who have mothered me in faith,
for my spouse, for spiritual mothers, and for the quiet, hidden ways
You reveal Your tenderness through them.

Lord Jesus,
You promised, “I will not leave you orphans; I will come to you,”
and from the Cross You gave us Mary as our Mother.
Tonight I place myself and my family beneath her mantle.
Where there is fear, may she bring trust.
Where there is division, may she sow peace.
Where there is weariness in parenting or in daily responsibilities,
may she whisper to us the words she once spoke at Cana:
“Do whatever He tells you.”

Holy Spirit,
You overshadowed Mary so that the Word might take flesh,
and You descended upon the Church as she prayed in the upper room.
Through her intercession, come upon my home tonight.
Renew the hearts of mothers and fathers, of children and the elderly,
of the lonely, the grieving, and those who quietly carry heavy burdens.
Let Mary’s fiat echo in our hearts,
that we may welcome Your will with love and courage.

Mary, Mother of God, Mother of the Church, and my Mother,
I entrust to you this day that is ending:
my joys and my failures, my love and my lack of love,
my family, my worries, and my hopes.
Hold us close as we sleep.
Teach us tomorrow to listen more like you,
to serve more like you,
and to keep our eyes fixed on Jesus in all things.

Jesus, living Lord,
because You live, I too will live.
Through the prayer of Your Mother and ours,
draw my heart deeper into Yours
so that my home may become, little by little,
a place of Easter joy, of Marian tenderness,
and of the quiet, steady love of the Holy Spirit.

Amen.

Hail Mary…

The Symbolism of Two Turtle Doves in Christmas

We all may remember that line from the song, “The Twelve Days of Christmas,” citing two turtle doves. Incidentally, this was Joseph and Mary’s offering in the temple where they took Jesus, given the Laws of Moses from Leviticus. These small animals actually pack a great deal of theology and meaning- from the humble, socio-economic status of the Holy Family, their obedience as Jews, all way pointing to the establishment of their son Jesus and His role in salvation history.

Check out this deep dive broadcast sharing some of the insights in this mystery from the Rosary. Take ten, relax, and enjoy the listen. In it is a message of hope and symbolism- of holy prophesy fulfilled, and the beginnings of Jesus’s life on earth.

The Presentation of Jesus in the Temple

Epiphany of the Lord

The Magi have come to see Jesus and pay homage to Him.

Matthew 2:1-12 tells the story of the Magi who come from the East, following a mysterious star, searching for “the newborn king of the Jews.” They arrive first in Jerusalem, which is exactly where you would expect a king of the Jews to be—but the real King is not in the palace with Herod, he is in hidden poverty in Bethlehem. Right from the start, Matthew is showing that God’s ways quietly overturn our expectations and that the true King is humble and vulnerable, yet worthy of adoration.thesoutherncross+2

When Herod hears about this child, he is frightened, and “all Jerusalem with him,” because a rival king threatens the fragile balance of his power. He gathers the chief priests and scribes, and they correctly identify Bethlehem as the place where the Messiah is to be born, quoting the prophecy that a ruler will come from Bethlehem who will shepherd God’s people. It is striking that the religious experts know the Scriptures but do not move an inch to seek the child, while pagan seekers from far away are willing to leave everything behind and follow the light God gives them.crs+2

The star reappears and guides the Magi to the exact place where the child is, and Matthew tells us they are “overjoyed” at seeing it. When they enter the house, they see “the child with Mary his mother,” and they fall to the ground in adoration, a gesture of worship that the Gospel reserves for God. Then they open their treasures and offer gold, frankincense, and myrrh—gifts that Catholic tradition reads as a kind of small creed in action: gold for Christ’s kingship, frankincense for his divinity, and myrrh for his future suffering and death. The same child who lies in his Mother’s arms will reign as King, receive our worship as God, and freely give his life on the Cross.catholic+2

The conclusion of the passage is quiet but important: having been warned in a dream not to return to Herod, the Magi go back to their own country “by another way.” On the surface this protects the child from Herod’s plans, but spiritually it also suggests that a real encounter with Christ changes a person’s path; after worshiping him, they cannot simply go back the way they came. The God who drew them by a star now directs their conscience and their choices, and they respond with obedience and trust.missions.ewtn+1

In the Catholic Church, this Gospel is proclaimed on the Solemnity of the Epiphany, which is one of the great feasts of the Christmas cycle. “Epiphany” means manifestation or revelation: in Bethlehem, Christ is revealed not only to Israel, but to the nations, represented by these learned Gentile visitors who adore him. In many older traditions, Epiphany was seen as the crowning feast of Christmas, and in the current Roman Rite the broader Christmas season concludes with the Baptism of the Lord, which is closely linked to Epiphany as another moment when Jesus is manifested publicly.nationalshrine+3

The Church has also kept some beautiful customs to remember this event. In many places, Epiphany is known as “Three Kings Day,” reflecting the long-standing tradition that there were three wise men, often named Caspar, Melchior, and Balthasar, who brought three royal gifts. One especially meaningful practice is the Epiphany house blessing, or “chalking the door”: the family uses blessed chalk to write something like “20 + C + M + B + 26” above the main entrance, with the numbers marking the year and the letters standing both for the names of the Magi and for the Latin prayer “Christus mansionem benedicat” – “May Christ bless this house.” It is a simple way of saying that, just as the Magi entered the house of the Holy Family and found Christ, we want our own home to be a place where Christ is welcomed, honored, and allowed to guide everything that happens inside.detroitcatholic+3

For a family reading this passage together at the close of the Christmas season, the story of the Magi raises gentle but serious questions. Amid school, work, and all the noise of ordinary life, are we more like Herod, defending our own plans, or like the Magi, willing to be interrupted and led by God, even when it means taking “another way” than we expected? The gifts of gold, frankincense, and myrrh can become a pattern for what each of you might offer Christ this year: the “gold” of your talents and achievements, the “frankincense” of your prayer and worship, and the “myrrh” of your sacrifices and hidden sufferings, freely given to him in love. In that sense, Epiphany is not only the conclusion of Christmas, but also a beginning—a moment to step into the new year with the same attitude as the Magi: eyes fixed on Christ, hearts open, and ready, if needed, to go home by a different road.mycatholic+2

​With Jesus’s birth, I have experienced a rebirth of my own in my career life. Directions I once took were redirected, and newer callings led me in ways I thought went astray, but later I would discover that there was greater purpose in store for me. In your reflections today, consider how in ways you have resisted God’s subtle guidance past our stubborness. Then think about the epiphany you experienced when you finally submitted and let it happen. The effect in my situations were eye opening and fulfilling. We do not know until God has revealed “by another way” that we realize our potential, and His mercy and grace at work in our lives.

Photo Credit, Painting:
Initial E: The Adoration of the Magi by Franco dei Russi
Original public domain image from Getty Museum

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