Monday of the Twentieth Week in Ordinary Time

First Reading: Ezekiel 24:15-23

Responsorial Psalm: Deuteronomy 32:18-19, 20, 21

Gospel: Matthew 19:16-22

Daily readings: https://bible.usccb.org/bible/readings/081726.cfm

The rich young man is not a villain. That is what makes this Gospel so hard to sit with. He came to Jesus — that already says something. He ran up and knelt, according to the other Gospel accounts. He was earnest. He asked the right question: what good must I do to gain eternal life? And when Jesus listed the commandments, he said with what sounds like genuine honesty: all of these I have observed. What do I still lack? He wanted more. He was not satisfied. And Jesus, looking at him, loved him — Mark’s version says that plainly. And then Jesus named the one thing. And the young man went away sad, because he had many possessions.

He did not argue. He did not get angry. He did not try to negotiate. He just went away sad. And there is something very familiar about that. Most of us do not walk away from Jesus in defiance. We walk away slowly, sadly, not quite ready to let go of the thing we are holding. We come back to the edge of the conversation and drift away again. The possessions do not have to be money — they can be control, comfort, a grudge we have carried so long it has become part of our identity, a habit we know is not helping us but feels like ours. Jesus names the one thing and we go quiet.

Ezekiel’s reading today is strange and severe — God tells him his wife is about to die and he is not to mourn publicly. He is to be a living sign to a people who are about to lose everything and will be too stunned to grieve. What holds us together, says God, is something other than the things we thought were keeping us safe. Ezekiel lost the delight of his eyes and kept walking. The rich young man could not put down his possessions. We are usually somewhere between the two.

A few questions to sit with tonight:

1. Jesus looked at the young man and loved him — and still let him walk away. Is there something Jesus is asking of me that I have been walking away from, not with anger, but just with sadness and not yet?

2. What is my version of many possessions — the thing I hold onto that makes Jesus’ invitation feel like it costs too much?

3. The young man asked: what do I still lack? Am I willing to ask that question honestly? What might Jesus name if I did?

4. Ezekiel lost the delight of his eyes and did not stop. Is there something I have lost, or am afraid to lose, that I have not yet brought to God?

One small thing for tomorrow:

Sit for a few minutes and ask Jesus quietly: what is the one thing I still lack? Do not rush to answer. Let the question sit. You do not have to resolve it — just be willing to hear it.

Lord Jesus, you loved that young man and let him go. You do not force the one thing from our hands. You name it and wait. I know there are things I am holding that keep me from following you more freely — habits, comforts, fears disguised as good sense. I do not always know what they are until you name them. Give me the courage not to walk away when you do. Help me to trust that what you offer in exchange is better than what I am carrying. And when I drift toward the door, call me back — not with judgment, but with the same love you showed him. Amen.

If you’d like to share: what is something you have gradually let go of that turned out to cost less than you feared?